Do you ever find yourself in an argument with another person from time to time? Do you ever find yourself in an argument that no one really cares about? Maybe no one really cares but pride is such that you can't let it go and you will not back down. Many things people would disagree on do not matter even a few hours later. We as people are so prideful however so we want to get our way. We want to get our opinions into the mix. We learn to be assertive and so we learn to argue. We feel if we back down we will look weak or if we give in that we are somehow less of a person.
Think about this with me for a minute what has upset you in the last week enough to prompt you to disagree and maybe even argue with someone. Was it really worth an argument?
Now on the other hand there are some things that people argue about that do matter. They matter a lot. Moral issues and values really do matter. Truth about God matters. Our beliefs and our rights matter. These things can and often do stir arguments. But sometimes people are unwilling to stand up for these things that matter and their rights and values are trashed or abused because people are not willing to argue for their own rights and points of view.
There is a saying that is worth repeating, "Choose your battles wisely." The meaning is decide what you are willing to argue about and what you feel you should just let go.
2 Timothy 2:14-16 NASB 14Remind them of these things, and solemnly charge them in the presence of God not to wrangle about words, which is useless and leads to the ruin of the hearers. 15Be diligent to present yourself approved to God as a workman who does not need to be ashamed, accurately handling the word of truth. 16But avoid worldly and empty chatter, for it will lead to further ungodliness,
Some arguments are worth having and some are not for sure, but we must always be careful to about getting involved in any arguments. We should always be careful to think about why we are willing to take an opposing view of someone else on anything. Our values and our beliefs should rule in decisions about arguments and we should always examine our own prideful hearts to see why we are involved in any argument we might find ourselves involved in with anyone.
The number one onion that matters is always what does God's Word say about anything we give consideration to, or we decide to debate or argue about. If God's Word is direct or definitive about anything there is nothing to discuss. If the issue is not so clear according to the Bible we are to carefully consider all things and live in accordance with as much biblical principle as we can find.
There is little to be gained ever by an argument. Be careful and be focused on what God's word gives us to live by.