We all have opinions and today's question is who, what, or where should we look to get a different opinion when the one we have is not the one we like or want? What is an opinion? Is it just what you think? Or is an opinion more? Is there a difference between advice and an opinion? Several questions here lets see if we can make sense of them, and sort them out ..... At least in my opinion.
Looking up the words opinion and advice at dictionary.com I found that the word advice uses the word opinion as part of the definition. So the definition of advice is: an opinion or recommendation offered as a guide to action, conduct, etc. Now the question we are posing today is should the advice be "offered" when it is not ask for? Or should we always wait until we are asked for our opinion? Well the answer varies with the person who is involved and the person who needs the advice now doesn't it?
How the person who is going to give advice has dealt with, (a.their own issues in the past), and (b. presently dealing with a subject), and (c. how they are living their lives in all other areas), makes all the difference in the world as to the value we would place upon whatever opinion they might present. People do not ask those who homeless to give advice to Better Homes and Garden. The person seeking financial investment opportunity does not go the unemployment office to find someone who can tell him where to invest his money. You do not call the plumber to put a roof on your house, or to give you an opinon about your rose bushes. No, we will seek advice from someone who seems to know something about whatever we would ask them about. But will we carefully weigh out the advice given by people who may or may not know about some subject?
Too often people offer opinions and give advice to others who will listen. These willing listeners give an ear to those who know little or nothing about a subject, but yet they think they do and willingly spout information. "I have often heard someone say" is a phrase you may hear when people are giving advice. Do you listen to people with hearsay thought like this? Does the opinion of a stranger matter to you? Too often people do listen to others and go by what they say, with little regard to the why they might say what they did.Too often they will hear something on TV or on talk radio and think this is what I must do.
I have led you somewhere on purpose. I have taken you to the "well of advice" this morning to ask you a simple question. What advice are you drinking? Whose opinions are you listening too? When you need an aswer to life issues where are you going to get your advice? Possible places are 1. Your own knowlege and experiance. 2. The world's ideas which would include the opinion of many well intentioned friends and family who would always say they are looking out for your best interest. 3. The world of man's knowledge. Either by the internet, books, greatly educated individuals who are experts in a given subject.
Now the reality is we all go to this "well of advice" from time to time to get some help on life's issues. We go to the mechanic if the car is acting up, we go to the doctor if the body is out of whack, and we go to the cookbook if the need is there for some special meal. We know many places to go for advice. The well of advice is now made availible by way of "Angies List", "Wikipedia", "Web M.D.", and countless other web sites, and we have Google to help us find it quickly. Advice is always there. So we drink the advice we get from the well.
But lets consider something else.
3His divine power has granted to us all things that pertain to life and godliness, through the knowledge of him who called us toc his own glory and excellence,d 4by which he has granted to us his precious and very great promises, so that through them you may become partakers of the divine nature, having escaped from the corruption that is in the world because of sinful desire. 5For this very reason, make every effort to supplement your faith with virtue,e and virtue with knowledge, 6and knowledge with self-control, and self-control with steadfastness, and steadfastness with godliness, 7and godliness with brotherly affection, and brotherly affection with love. 8For if these qualitiesf are yours and are increasing, they keep you from being ineffective or unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. 2 Peter 1:3-8 ESV
Here is a different thought. God has given us all we need in Our knowledge of Jesus Christ. This overarching and all encompassing thought should direct our lives. Jesus should be the focal point of all we say and think and do. The measure of sound advice should be looking at everything with a realization that God has purposes in all things we do and say. If we want advice Pray about that advice. If may be a simple prayer, like Lord please direct me to a good plumber if you need someone to unclog the drain, but it may be far more in depth than this if you are looking to get advice on finance, jobs, or life problems. Does a person's faith make a difference in their opinion? My opinion is that it does. When you are going to the "well of advice" look carefully around the well and even in the well. I would not drink from a well with trash in it.
Jesus said to the woman at the well:
Jesus answered and said to her, “Everyone who drinks of this water will thirst again; 14but whoever drinks of the water that I will give him shall never thirst; but the water that I will give him will become in him a well of water springing up to eternal life.” John 4:13-14 NAS
At the onset of this article I wrote "who, what, or where should we look to get a different opinion when the one we have is not the one we like or want?" So the short answer for any of life's question is Look to Jesus.
The Bible is a big and difficult volume. It has cultural, historical, implications for its readers. It must be interpreted to understand an apply it. Once again you may need an opinion. Be careful where you get this too. Knowing the right answers to life issues is critical to have a life of joy and peace. Be careful who you listen to is all I am saying. Look around the "Well of Advice" before you drink.